Making Time for Once in a Lifetime Events

About a year ago, I was looking through my son’s school vacation schedule and entering his vacation days on my calendar.  On April 8, 2024, I noticed a unique day off designation: Total Solar Eclipse.  I was intrigued.  The school district is giving all the kids a day off for an eclipse?  How marvelous!

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Permission to Shorten Meetings - Granted

Meetings…I know very few working professionals who do not feel overwhelmed by meetings.  I can’t tell you how many client calendars I’ve seen that are nothing but back-to-back meetings.  There are a couple of thoughts and stories that have helped me to make meetings a less overwhelming part of my life.

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Permission to Delete Out of Office Emails - Granted

One of my favorite counter-cultural activities is companies or individuals who go on vacation and auto-delete emails that are received when they are out of the office.  Many workers don’t use all of their vacation days, and a big reason why they don’t use their time is because of the mountain of emails they have waiting for them when they return.  Well, some companies and individuals have found a way to eliminate that issue.

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Permission to Exit Your Inbox - Granted

If you’re like most professionals, your email inbox is a siren that pulls you toward it nearly constantly all day every day.  But what if I told you that many highly successful people do not incessantly check their emails?  What if a big secret to many peoples’ success is discipline with their inbox and only checking it a certain number of times a day or at certain times? 

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Permission to Sleep - Granted

So many of the stories I see equate success with deprivation.  For example, if you want to be successful in [insert industry here], say goodbye to sleep.  Hustle culture/deprivation stories have never appealed to me.  I’m attracted to tales of people who have accomplished much in life but also take care of themselves. 

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Permission Granted

I’m fascinated by stories of people who march to the beat of their own drums.  They are counter-cultural and go against the grain of normal societal pressures; and in doing so, they create a new path for other people to follow.  When I encounter an example of even one person who has traveled the path I intuitively feel is mine as well, their paved path lessens my anxiety and gives me permission in my own mind to walk that trail too. 

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Save Your Holiday Preferences

I am so lucky to have a family and the ability to travel to be with them during Christmas.  For about a week around that joyous holiday, we all gather in one house to make merry together.  People from 3 or more households are living under one roof for an extended period of time, which means quite a few logistical concerns need to be handled. 

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